What do you think about guys who don't want to touch women below the belt?

My boyfriend and I have been together now for 6 years and one day we were having this conversation about sex. And it had suddenly dawned on me that he has never touched me in or on the private area. I asked him why and he said that it was nasty to him. I was taken by surprise and pissed off at the same time. Just like he wants to be pleased so do I! What do you make of this because I never knew that would be a turn off to a guy. And yes I am clean and I smell good too. He just never does anything different. Its always the same positions and the same lack of foreplay (yeah he likes to kiss and nibble on the breast but that is as far as it goes). Any suggestions or ideas of what is going on or what I can do to get him to open up alittle sexually? Please answer seriously because I really want to know what others think about this!!!

it means they are gay

there gay

I don't know for sure but it sounds gay......my boyfriend says that ALL guys like that and if they don't there's something wrong. Ask him about it because it's been 6 years what are you gonna do? What if he IS gay! Why would he be with you what a jerk!

Try bargening say if you do this for me I'll do something for you.

either he's gay, or he doesn't like "going down" on girls. If you wanna spice things up just tell him what you want him to do to you and let him know that it will benefit him as well.

He has no experience with it. Watch porn with him. Attack him and make him do it. I used to think going down on a woman was gross, but after I grew up i started realizing that what turned me on was being able to control that womans body and speed up her heart, make her body buck, and get her to make some of the craziest faces ever seen during sex. After that I was finding every opportunity to bury my face there.

It is perspective. You need to help him change his. I still think its gross watching my woman put in her tampon. It is just comfort zones.

If you have been w/ this man for six yrs. you should be able to conversate on what pleases you both. If you do for him and he does not do for you. He is what you call a selfish lover, only aiming to please himself. I'm sure there are things you do to please him to make him happy and you really don't want to, but you know that it makes him happy and that in return makes you happy, and that should be vice verse. Besides if you have been with him for six yrs and you are not married. your are letting him have his cake and eating it too. He has you right were he wants you. It sounds like you need a new relationship, a man who respects you and your thoughts and that can deliver an answer to you, w/o causing hurt feelings. hope this helps good luck.

He sounds pretty lame. It's up to you to slow him down and extend the foreplay. Try refusing him penetration until he's worked a bit harder.

Talk soon and release everything! Tell him you need to experience all facets of the game of sex.....buy a copy of the Kama Sutra or something direct!

Same position...little kissing of the nipples??? Time to dump

him. A suggestion, other than talking to him, would be to leave

sexually explicit materials lying on the tables and bringing them up for discussion. Porn movies, to me, would be a posi-

tive turn-off. After 6 yrs. are you living together or still dating??

Long foreplay is the name of the game and teasing is very

tantalizing. If he continues to ignore you attempts or requests,

definately don't marry him. Is he ever gone overnight or ex-

tended periods of time? He might be busy doing what you

want with someone else.